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September 18, 2012

The Change



No, I’m not referring to hot flashes. I’m talking about the moment when a heroine realizes she has room to grow. Perhaps she’s misjudged the hero, or learned that she can handle a gun or a roomful of snarky snobs. There comes in every story, a moment when the heroine comes to a life-changing peak in her journey. We read for it. We wait for it. We live for it. Why? Because we can identify. Even if we haven’t gone through the same trauma or joy of these moments, we know we might someday.

I think Elizabeth Bennet said it best when she observed, “Until this moment, I never knew myself.” If that doesn’t put a knot in your throat, you’ve never screwed up a relationship or a major chapter of your life. (So the time is probably ripe!)

Falling in love with a heroine is a platonic journey for most of us. We love to read about women we either want to be or would like to be friends with. Even those we don’t care for initially, we want and almost need for them to change.

A great heroine doesn’t have to be beautiful or have special powers. All we need is for her to conquer, and if that means conquering herself, then all the better. For some of us, empowerment is finding the life-long partner of our dreams. For others, it’s grabbing one by the collar and giving him a good shake until he sees straight. No matter how fanciful, I believe the books we seek out reflect our life experiences or desires. And by living through a heroine we can relate to, we may just find the courage to become more than we ever knew we could.

With Turtle Soup, my sweet environmental romance, I found myself thinking about my heroine a lot. Sara Hart is just plain average. She isn’t super talented or super hot, and she doesn’t carry the weight of the world on her shoulders. Sara simply enjoys helping people and doing her part to make the world a better place. I found that letting her have her dream--a deli in downtown Atlanta--when the story opened, allowed room for her to grow as a person throughout the story. Since she already had achieved such an accomplishment, the question became, how much did she really want it? What would she be willing to sacrifice in order to experience something new and unknown?

Believe it or not, those were questions in my own life I needed to answer at that time.

Reading about a heroine is one thing. Writing, or creating a heroine is quite another. You can’t get mad and throw the book down. I had to journey along with Sara as she came to a critical point in her career, and I ached with her, too. Her courage and success were something we shared together. I was given hope. I was made braver. Heroines give us that. Isn’t it a part of why we love to read?

Both writing and reading Turtle Soup gave me something to smile about, but it many ways it meant so much more. I took one more baby step forward in conquering myself. And I couldn’t have done that without a heroine leading the way.

So here’s to your favorite heroine. And here’s to you, simply for having the courage to understand that we all have room and the capacity to change.

~Danielle Thorne

GIVEAWAY!

Comment on today's post by 9/25/12 and be entered in a drawing for a free ebook copy of Turtle Soup!  



Sea turtles may be endangered but after an encounter with marine biologist, Jack Brandon, nothing will stop Sara from naming her new deli, Turtle Soup. Neither thinks the other has what it takes, until a scuba class reveals what lies beneath the surface.
 


Turtle Soup is available at B&N, Smashwords and other online bookstores.

4 comments:

crystaley73 said...

Great post and the book sounds great Thanks for the chance to win a copy

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Dawn! said...

Loved Turtle Soup and this article reminding my why I did! How fun it is to attempt to see ourselves as the heroines of our own life story!

Anonymous said...

I LOVED Turle Soup too and it's great to hear how you as the writer struggle with your character's decisions and also learn from her.
Dawn W.